What to Do When a Narcisissist is Also Codependent
Codependency and narcissism are seemingly two extremely different traits, and it can be hard to believe they can be found in one person. True, they might have conflicting traits, but it is important to note that these two exist on a spectrum hence it is possible to have someone exhibit both traits. A narcisissist can also be a codependent. Narcissism shares a common thread in that both come from a poorly developed sense of self. In trying to live up to this definition [...]
Bible Verses about Parenthood: Biblical Support for Parents
Looking for Bible verses about parenthood? Find support and encouragement here. Being a parent is a great gift and a great responsibility. Caring for a child’s physical well-being is only one part of parenthood. Nurturing the mind and soul also takes a great deal of patience, compassion, and humility. If you need further support, Carlsbad Christian Counseling is here to provide guidance and help you navigate these important moments in your child's life. There are a myriad of books, blogs, vlogs, and other [...]
Is Your Child Struggling With Anxiety? How Anxiety in Children and Teens Negatively Impacts Their Education and Life
Are you worried about your child’s worrying? Have you noticed a change in your child? Maybe they’ve become more worried, clingy, or distant. Anxiety in children can show up in many ways and negatively impact your child’s experience at school, at home, with friends, or with extracurricular activities. Maybe there are certain topics they don’t want to talk about, or they look fearful when you ask about a specific teacher or friend. Or they’re afraid to talk to their teacher about their questions [...]
7 Tips for Surviving Infidelity
If you have been affected by infidelity or affairs, you have endured great pain. You need encouragement and support as you navigate a new path after learning your spouse was unfaithful to you. Healing is possible as you seek care from a Christian counselor, who can offer compassion, wisdom, and practical help. Healing from infidelity and affairs. Though you may be facing an intense storm right now, know that healing is possible. You didn’t ask for this problem, but God is ready and [...]
How to Help My Depressed Husband
Annie thought she might be living with a depressed husband, but she wasn’t sure. Her husband was usually mild-mannered, a pastor, and incredibly benevolent with everyone who knew him. But a few months into his new pastorate he was starting to act differently, especially at home. This is when Annie wondered if something in him had changed. It’s important for loved ones, especially spouses, to know the signs of depression. Has your husband’s mood changed? Does he seem like he is more irritable [...]
4 Tips for Improving Your Communication With Your Spouse
As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I’ve discovered four communication techniques that produce the quickest growth in the couples I work with – no matter how long they’ve been together. Are you talking like a parent to a child? One of the communication problems that couples seem to easily spot in themselves is knowing if they are talking to their spouse like a scolding parent, a child or a healthy adult. Imagine if one partner is scolding their spouse, something like: “Oh [...]